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Getting to Know Parts of Yourself: An Exercise
Image Credit - Crowe Associates You may have noticed that sometimes in life you feel resistance to things you feel are good for you. You...

nelsonmiked
Feb 83 min read
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So, You've Been Doing Some Processing...
If you are reading this you have recently done some processing in session. And I hope you give yourself some kindness, compassion, and...

nelsonmiked
Nov 5, 20242 min read
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Re-igniting Motivation: How Play Can Help Combat Depression
It’s been said that if depression had an ad campaign, it would be: “What’s the use?” For many of us this phrase captures the essence of...

nelsonmiked
Aug 13, 20245 min read
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Developing Healthy Vulnerability: Thought Questions
Here are some thought questions intended to be used alongside the video The Path to Belonging: What Lilo, Stitch, and Brene Brown Teach...

nelsonmiked
Jun 6, 20242 min read
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“A Light For You In Dark Places”: Creating Your Own Hope Box
One of my favorite moments in The Lord of the Rings is when Frodo is given a magical vial to aid him on his journey. Even though it was...

nelsonmiked
May 24, 20244 min read
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Three Beliefs That Keep Us Stuck in Depression
Feeling Hopeless is Human. We will all very likely experience some degree of hopelessness, despair, and depression at some point in our...
nelsonmiked
Apr 29, 20244 min read
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Boundaries: The Distance at Which I Can Love You...AND Me
Having good boundaries in the context of emotional and mental health means knowing and communicating your limits, needs, and values in...
nelsonmiked
Mar 29, 20242 min read
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Caves in Stories and Literature*
tl;dr: Caves, or "cave moments", seem to be nearly omnipresent in our collective story-telling; Luke Skywalker's cave moment can be used...
nelsonmiked
Sep 26, 20231 min read
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Possible Educational Applications of the 'Play Therapy' Series*
*For teachers, educators, and group leaders to use for group discussion and/or writing prompts. How to use this resource: (1) Review the...
nelsonmiked
Sep 22, 202310 min read
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Flooding
(Note: Although this post is written from the perspective of marriage partners, the principles are just as applicable to friends,...
nelsonmiked
Apr 17, 20234 min read
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An EMDR Approach to Phobias
When a trauma occurs, it seems to get locked in the nervous system with the original picture, sounds, thoughts, and feelings. The...
nelsonmiked
Nov 20, 20203 min read
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What is "Nice Guy Syndrome"?
In his book No More Mr. Nice Guy Dr Robert Glover introduces the idea of "Nice Guy Syndrome". Despite what the title may suggest, the...
nelsonmiked
Jun 11, 20201 min read
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Nurturing Figures
Imaginal resources can be extremely helpful in providing support and strength during the therapeutic process. Some find it helpful to...
nelsonmiked
Jun 8, 20202 min read
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"Adjusting the Sails" -- Some thoughts about Stress Managment
Why should I seek to manage my stress? Unmanaged stress is linked to many medical problems (including heart disease, high blood pressure,...
nelsonmiked
May 6, 20204 min read
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The Back of the Head Scale
Dissociation is when the brain’s defenses decide to mess with our sense of present awareness and orientation. A dissociative state can be...
nelsonmiked
Apr 22, 20202 min read
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“I Love Myself When...”
In his book “I Love Me, I Love Me Not” Greg Hendrix explores themes of self-acceptance and perfectionism. He writes: “As we grow up, we...
nelsonmiked
Aug 22, 20193 min read
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“Feeling Safe When I am Safe”
Resourcing is the term used in EMDR therapy when we consciously seek to enhance or build upon positive associations in our neural...
nelsonmiked
Aug 15, 20193 min read
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Clearing Our Emotional Circuits*
*(From the work of Sandra Paulson and Katie O’Shea) Our emotions protect us and enhance our lives. They’re part of us from the very...
nelsonmiked
Aug 14, 20192 min read
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Anxiety or Revelation?: Some Thoughts From an Anxious Mormon
Both science and religion espouse the idea that we can receive helpful warnings via our feelings. From a scientific standpoint proponents...
nelsonmiked
Jul 21, 20196 min read
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Jun 14, 20190 min read
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