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Nurturing Figures
NOTE: This blog has moved! You can read the updated version here: https://nelsoncounselingservices.com/nurturing-figures-emdr/ Imaginal...

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Jun 8, 20202 min read


The Back of the Head Scale
Dissociation is when the brain’s defenses decide to mess with our sense of present awareness and orientation. A dissociative state can be...

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Apr 22, 20202 min read


“Feeling Safe When I am Safe”
Resourcing is the term used in EMDR therapy when we consciously seek to enhance or build upon positive associations in our neural...

nelsonmiked
Aug 15, 20193 min read


Clearing Our Emotional Circuits*
*(From the work of Sandra Paulson and Katie O’Shea) Our emotions protect us and enhance our lives. They’re part of us from the very...

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Aug 14, 20192 min read



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Jun 14, 20190 min read


Negative Cognitions
Disturbing life experiences often cause us to form negative beliefs about ourselves. These negative cognitions are conclusions about...

nelsonmiked
Feb 28, 20192 min read


“Violets are Blue” - Examples of Resolving Automatic Responses Through EMDR Therapy
Sometimes in EMDR therapy we will know immediately what memories need to be reprocessed; and other times it will take a little more time...

nelsonmiked
Feb 27, 20195 min read


“Roses are Red” - An EMDR Approach to Why We Suffer
“The following excerpts are taken from Getting Past Your Past by Francine Shapiro: “The truth is we all suffer at one time or another....

nelsonmiked
Feb 27, 20195 min read


“Me...Also Me” — An Introduction to Dissociation
Simply stated, dissociation is our brain's way of coping—helping us take a “break”—from stressful or traumatic things. Although...

nelsonmiked
Feb 18, 20197 min read


Am I experiencing “trauma“?
Many times people have the question: “Have I been traumatized?” Although a diagnosis of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) or Acute...

nelsonmiked
Feb 15, 20195 min read


“You are here!” — An Overview of EMDR Therapy
EMDR is an 8 phase treatment protocol. These phases are outlined below so at any point in your therapy you can identify where we are and...

nelsonmiked
Feb 8, 20192 min read


Building and Enhancing Resources
At some points in therapy we may find it helpful to build and install a mental and emotional resource . This helps us: • Develop and...

nelsonmiked
Jan 8, 20194 min read


Identifying Touchstone Memories
When selecting a memory or experience for reprocessing we are often looking for the “first or worst.” That is, what experience represents...

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Jan 4, 20192 min read


What’s Different About EMDR?
As you might have surmised already EMDR is different than traditional talk therapy. Here is a quick take on some significant differences:...

nelsonmiked
Jan 2, 20194 min read


Using a Container - A Place for Memories, Experiences, and Emotions
Using a container visualization provides a way to set aside material until it can be reprocessed. When something distressing happens (an...

nelsonmiked
Dec 31, 20184 min read


EMDR Phase 2 - Preparing for EMDR Processing
Phase 2 is about making sure that clients have the tools and ability to emotionally regulate themselves during and between sessions of...

nelsonmiked
Dec 27, 20182 min read


EMDR Prep: “What are you noticing now?”
When we begin processing your experience or memory I will use the phrase “What are you noticing now?” to do a simple check on what you...

nelsonmiked
Dec 27, 20182 min read


Taking EMDR to the Movies
Once you understand the primary assumption of EMDR therapy*—that the way we react to things in the present is affected by our...

nelsonmiked
Dec 17, 20182 min read


Using a TICES Log
NOTE: This blog has moved! You can read the updated version here: https://nelsoncounselingservices.com/tices-log-emdr/ Using a TICES log...

nelsonmiked
Dec 17, 20182 min read


Bilateral Stimulation — A Tool of the EMDR Therapist
One of the primary tools EMDR therapists use to facilitate reprocessing of maladaptively stored memories is bilateral stimulation (BLS)....

nelsonmiked
Dec 16, 20182 min read
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